Powerless and Alone...
Have you noticed this voice...
It comes from without, and within.
It strikes in our most exposed moments.
Feeling isolated, resourceless, helpless.
...you aren't enough...
...you will never be enough...
...you can't do this, so why try?...
...what makes you so special to succeed?...
...no one cares anyway...
As poisonous as they are seductive, these insidious voices are whispered to us from all angles: media, family, parents (bless their hearts), partners, politicians, religious officials, and worst of all, our own minds.
And for those of us that have committed to living at a higher vibration (like you!), these voices tend to become even louder (both from others and ourselves).
At each potential moment of career and financial breakthrough, we must face these poisonous voices, and stand our ground in something other than victimization.
How? Read on...
Powerlessness: The Catch and Turn-Around
The catch about powerlessness is that YOU are CHOOSING to accept this position of powerlessness. Your choice is empowered, and if you weren't truly powerful, you wouldn't be able to so fully and convincingly play the hopeless victim.
Quite a twist eh? See how far the rabbit hole goes Neo...
Alone and Lonely vs. Alone and Free
Have you ever had this experience:
After hours of hiking through forested trails, you at last break the tree line and reach the summit. The air is fresh and crisp, your body is exhilarated, you feel fully connected to the world around you...and, you are alone.
If you have not had this experience, I am sure you have had one with a similar energy and context of 'alone and not lonely'.
In another instance, I spent 4 consecutive months in silent and isolated retreat. And, this was one of the most full and sublime times of my life. Why? Because I was there...fully present to the fullness within my aloneness.
Loneliness is a pitied, embittered and self-serving lens that we see ourselves through to deny our own power.
Ever study the lives of geniuses and world-movers? Hang out in self-pity much?
No ma'am. They understand and see through this filter of victimization. Their gifts are too important not to give.
So What to Do?
- Acknowledge Suffering: Give yourself FULL PERMISSION to feel the feelings of powerlessness and loneliness that are present. Being authentically present with the unpleasant feelings is where this kind of transformation work always starts.
- Acknowledge Choice: Acknowledge that powerlessness and loneliness are choices you are making on a moment-to-moment basis. It is the way you are energetically relating to the present moment.
- Shift Your State: These first two steps done skillfully will open up a space of energy and possibility- even if only a little one. Take advantage of this opening, and shift your state using acceleration practices.
- Empower Authentic Action: Once you are conscious and energized, tap your essential or authentic self and source your next actions from this place. This action will realign and retune the following actions and life path.
Remember fellow Hero,
Powerlessness and Loneliness are stories about what is happening to you, and are just as true or real as any other story you decide to take up.
The big shift begins to occur when you take a stand again the ruthless negative thoughts of your own mind, instead making deliberate contact with that inner voice beneath and beyond the mind.
Acceleration practices and Inner Hero Training are excellent ways for you to make this shift and take the leap into the next amazing phase of your visionary and successful life.
I'll see you there,
SuperSpark
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